Messages From the Middle

Afraid to Heal

It seems counter intuitive, but being afraid of healing is very common. We are comfortable in our pain, but there is so much more available to us if we are willing to move through the pain and discomfort and find the person we are capable of being on the other side of the healing journey.
In this episode I share the reasons why you might be afraid of healing, and offer three ways to work through the fear and discomfort. 
email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com
instagram: @childsongbird

There Is A Light That Never Goes Out: finding joy in our story

In this episode I take you through an excercies I use to create a timeline of all the good, happy and uplifting times in your life. This exercise is so powerful to see that life really is 50/50 there is light and good in our lives. We just have to look for it!
 
email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com
instagram: @childsongbird
 

Talk Too Much: ADHD and oversharing

There are so many discoveries I have made since my ADHD diagnosis. This week I do a deep dive into what I learned about people with ADHD and their tendency to over-talk and over-share. This has been a big one my whole life. Learning that it is a result of issues with executive function AND that there are things we can all do to help us be better with our communication. 
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email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com

Winter is Coming: My stradegy for the winter months

I really struggle with winter. A few years ago, as a way of learning to do more than just get through winter I learned about Hygge. In this episode I share a few fundamental of this Danish art of cozy, comfort and well being along with the five goals I have set for having a better winter season this year. 
my list ofHygge essentials of Amazon:https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/2B3T1B45QFV0P?ref_=wl_share
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Instagram: @childsongbird
email: Wendy@messagesfromthemiddle

Grit and Grace: What you need to know about feminine and masculine energy

No matter what our biological gender is we all have feminine and masculine energy. We do tend to be more dominant in one or the other, but finding balance in these two energies will help you to create a life that you live on purpose. In this episode I talk about the characteristic of feminine and masculine energy. What imbalance looks like and how you can balance your energy to live a more whole and complete life.
 
Instagram: @childsongbird
email: Wendy@messaagesfromthemiddle.com

Where Is My Mind:The importance of noticing your thoughts

One of the most empowering things we can learns for our emotions is that it is out thoughts that create our emotions. In this episode I talk about notching your thoughts, becoming aware of the emotions the thought is causing and steps you can take towards creating a thought that is more serving to your mental health. 
 
instagram: @childsongbird
email: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com

Dancing WIth Myself: My deep dive into Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria

No one likes rejection, but for people with Rejection Sensitivity Dysphoria (RSD) rejection is especially painful. This pain can cause mental health issues like anxiety and depression and can even be misdiagnosed as Bi-polar, borderline personality or other mood disorders. Another interesting thing about RSD, 100% of people with ADHD have it! It just shows up in different ways because we are all different. This week I look into RSD to get more information on the symptoms, the way it presents in different people and the treatment. 
Contact me: wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com
Instagram: @childsongbird

It’s Okay That You’re Not Okay

We are meant to feel every emotion, even the negative ones. The negative emotions help us to feel and experience the complexity of life. In this weeks episode I talk about the negative emotions, why they are good for us and an important part of life and healing. 
 
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@childsongbird on Instagram
email at Wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com

The Co-Dependent

Are you co-dependent? In reality we are all have traits of co-dependency, but when it's really bad it can cause depression, anxiety, lack of self-love and self-care and lead to many destructive behaviors all before you realize there is a problem.
In this episode I talk about sign of co-dependency and the pathway out! Yes, there is hope if you are willing to do the work!
@childsongbird on Instagram
email me at wendy@messagesfromthemiddle.com
 

There Are Cracks In Everything: How our tiny cracks are a blessing

There are cracks in everything, that's how the light gets in. -Leonard Cohen. This is a quote I have written on my mirror. I love the perspective it brings me. In this episode I look at the core belief "I am broken" and talk about how we are never broken, but we are also not perfect, there are cracks, and that's ok. That is exactly how we are meant to be. Learning how to accept our flaws while knowing that we aren't broken is a fine line and hard work to do AND so important to our mental health.
find me on Instagram @childsongbird
or send me and email. wendy@messagesfromthemiddile.com